Have you ever wonder how your sexual activity compares with others? Do you ever bother that you’re having too much sex? Or do you ever feel like you’re just not satisfied with sex? Does everybody have sex all the time in any period of life? It’s easy to image how many other people are having sex, but most of them don’t tell you their sexual histories.
The fact is, though, that it is difficult to define how many times people spend for sex, because most of them don’t keep an exact count. Although you may know how many partners you’ve had during your life, that number doesn’t necessarily add up to the amount of sex you’ve had. If you had one constant partner for 5 years and you had sex on your first date and every day after that, then you had sex 1,825 times in 5 years. If you had 50 partners over the course of 5 years, but they were all one night stands, then you only had sex 50 times in 5 years. So if you want to define how much time you spent for a sex, try to calculate the number of total times, not partners.
I am often asking myself a question: can person has too much or too little sex? Most of people like to hear about the average sexual frequency of others, because if they conform to those numbers, it makes them feel glad. Nevertheless, there is no such thing like normal or average when it comes to frequency of sex. How much sex have you ever had, you always want to have more.
For example, if a couple have a sex once a week and they are satisfied with it, it means that it’s normal for them. Whatever amount makes you and your partner happy is the right amount, no matter how rare. On the other hand, if you enjoy having sex often, that’s fine, if you can find a partner who wants the same amount as you.
You may have too much sex in case it is interfering with your life. If you have a lot of work, you are busy, you never have time to talk to your family or friends, and you can’t act normally because you feel that you must have sex all the time, then you’re having too much sex. Some people who are this extreme are said to be sexually compulsive, and they should be cured by a sex therapist for this problem. Nevertheless, there is nothing wrong with having a lot of sex. If you have the power, time, emotional and sexual excitements, and a ready partner, go for it!